Tried to Stop, but Simply Could not Stop Myself from Going Back to it….
This is something I get asked regularly….what makes a sex addict? Many question if there is such a thing as a sex addict. I once had a person tell me “I just think men are dogs.” Unfortunately, sex...
View ArticleIt Keeps You from What is Important
Another way we know sexual addiction is present is the way addiction keeps us from getting things done. I guess I should be clear here; it keeps us from getting valuable and important things done!!...
View ArticleSpent Ridiculous Amounts of Time Seeking or Having Sex
“IT CAN’T BE THAT LATE!! It was just a little while ago that I got online…” This is something an addict says to him or herself. The addict loses track of the amounts of time, energy, and money they are...
View ArticleCan’t Stop Thinking About Sex
At work, with family, with my partner, in the car, in the back yard, at the game, watching TV, playing cards with friends, on a business lunch, when I turn on the internet, when I am doing homework, in...
View ArticleDenied There Was a Problem
This is a difficult one. How can you accept what you cannot allow into your awareness? Yet this is what addicts do, they deny. They do not allow themselves to see what this is costing themselves and...
View ArticleConfused About Partner’s Reactions
I am at the grocery store with my partner and happen to notice the checkout girl. She is attractive, but I am not looking to hook up with her or anything. As we leave the grocery store, my partner...
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